I think departures should be with dignity and respect.
People live with their partners, someone enters into their lives, conflict begins and they are separated. All of this and more is for us human beings and it is natural. But please, do not do that to someone like me!
The one who wants to go goes; the one wants to stay remains. Both deserve respect In my point of view. However; If gone like a man. But most of all a man does not suit this iridescence. At least say that you are leaving, extend your hand, make a noise, tap your feet, and then go where ever you want to go and respect our friendship.
You cannot enter someone’s heart enthusiastically and leave like a thief, you should not!
With the politeness you’ve entered you should exit with that courage. If you are not that courageous you should say what you want openly face to face. You should not turn where the wind is blowing it’s not a direction. May be you are getting away from taking responsibility, perhaps avoiding to put your signature into a serious relationship, you should say it openly.
For example; you may say let’s see each other sometimes, let’s make love, eat and drink together, chat together. Or you should ask what’s in your mind “don’t approach me with a serious relationship, I want this. What do you want?" In other words you shouldn’t be cunning and never think the other person is stupid. You should be honest, and see how you will be welcomed.
Now you are asking if I am offended or broken? Yes I am. I wish I was angry. My rage would’ve passed by the evening.
I love a courageous man and a woman. I also love people who stand behind their mistakes.
If I loved one no matter what capacity I want them to be worthy of my love. From a man and a woman I expect humanity first, and then love.